Killing the Good Girl
4 Week Group Immersion from Good Girl to Black Widow
You already know why you're here.
The version of you that's been running the show — brilliant, strategic, magnetic, endlessly capable — she's gotten you everything you ever asked for.
But you're still hungry.
Not for more success, or more healing, or another layer of self-awareness.
For yourself.
The unedited, unapologetic, takes-up-all-the-space, doesn't-explain-herself version that you've been managing and containing for everyone else's comfort.
This version of you - she’s not someone you need to become.
You are already her.
But your Good Girl is excellent at making you forget.
Your Good Girl is why you:
Know exactly what you want when you’re scrolling at midnight… but talk yourself out of it by morning
Build success on top of success while feeling increasingly hollow inside each achievement
Need to understand why something is right before you allow yourself to want it
Over-explain yourself so nobody feels uncomfortable or upset
Seem to always be capped at having just enough to get by, but never truly thrive
End up creating a life just below the ceiling of what you actually desire — because wanting too much still feels too vulnerable and too dangerous
Here’s what most people get wrong about the Good Girl.
She’s not weak, or sniveling, or cowardly.
She’s brilliant.
The Good Girl is a master strategist
She is exceptional at reading rooms, managing perception, and anticipating what people need before they even know themselves.
She knows exactly who to be to get what she wants.
It's just that what she wants most - is to belong.
And her version of strategy comes with a price you're no longer willing to pay.
Your hunger. Your power. Your pleasure.
The parts of you that are too much, too dark, too loud, too greedy — she's been domesticating them for years.
Keeping them contained so she can keep you safe.
But you’re so. fucking. tired of safe
Familiar and comfortable don’t hit the way it used to.
You’re ready for so much more than just ordinary.
Enter the Black Widow.
The Black Widow doesn't apologize for her hunger.
She lets it lead.
She wasn’t designed to follow other peoples’ rules and systems.
The Black Widow is built to disrupt, create, and innovate whole new worlds and realities.
The Black Widow is the woman who:
walks into a room and stays rooted in her energy rather than scanning to see who she needs to be
says what she’s actually thinking instead of rehearsing a safer version 5x in her head first
books the ticket and tells him after. no asking for permission
leaves the dinner party the moment she's ready without bothering to manufacture an excuse
lets herself want what she wants without putting it on trial
is as big on the outside as she's always been on the inside
She's not a different woman from you.
She is not someone you need to become.
She IS you.
The version of you without the apology running underneath or performance layered on top.
It’s time to dethrone your Good Girl.
And Activate your Black Widow.
Killing the Good Girl
Your 4 Week Transformation from Good Girl to Black Widow
Killing the Good Girl is a 4 week group immersion for powerful women who are done playing it safe.
We create an intimate room of women who already know how to lead, achieve, perform, hold everything together, and make things happen.
Over the course of 4 weeks, we identify the exact ways your Good Girl has still been influencing your relationships, visibility, leadership, standards, boundaries, desires, and decision-making.
Then we interrupt those patterns in real time so you stop filtering yourself through performance, approval, and strategy —
and start moving like the Black Widow.
Powerful. Influential. Dangerous.
What’s Included
⚔️ Weekly 90-Minute Live Group Calls (plus recordings & notes)
Each week, we gather together to learn and track the exact ways your Good Girl runs the show: the moment you soften your standards, second-guess your instincts, reshape your truth to be more digestible, or choose what feels smart over what feels true.
*NOTE: This is NOT for you if you enjoy sitting in the back of the room and hiding. My teaching style is hands-on, and this is a highly interactive and experiential container. You are not here to passively consume information while your deeper subconscious patterns stay intact. You will be challenged to confront the exact ways the Good Girl is shaping your relationships, visibility, self-expression, leadership, desire, and decisions in real time.
⚔️ Private Telegram Community
This is where your patterns become impossible to miss. The community is where integration becomes real because it’s where you bring the work as it unfolds in your actual life. Where the Good Girl shows up in how you respond, what you don't say, what you perform instead of feel. This is where you identify, in real time, the internal conditioning that taught you to dilute your instincts, second-guess your desires, and negotiate away your own power.
⚔️ Shadow Work Rituals & Practices
Throughout the immersion you’ll receive rituals, embodiment practices, shadow work exercises, prompts, and integration work designed to sharpen your self-trust and expand your capacity to hold more visibility, desire, influence, and power without collapsing back into self-management.
What we cover
Week 1: The Funeral
You can't kill what you can't see. We identify where your Good Girl programming is still running the show (like your money, your relationships, your body, your work). We name exactly what her reign has cost you. And we bury her with the respect she deserves.
Week 2: The Rebirth
Underneath the strategy and the optimizing and the managing — there is a woman who knows exactly what she wants. This week we meet your Black Widow. We let her speak and we learn what she’s ravenous to claim.
Week 3: The Claiming
This is where it becomes irreversible. You go from knowing your Black Widow to being her. In your actual life. In the text you send. The price you charge. The thing you say out loud without backing down from it. Moves your Good Girl would never have survived - now start to feel like the option you can’t not take.
Week 4: The Integration
We make sure you don't compress back into who you were before. We create the structure (the repeatable rituals, practices, and strategies) for you to embody your Black Widow on a daily basis. Until she’s no longer someone you have to practice accessing - she’s simply how you operate.
Investment: $525
Flexible payment options available through Klarna and Afterpay
You already know what your Good Girl has been trying to hide from you.
You’re ready
The only thing left to do…
is admit it.
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I’m Erica, your Black Widow Mentor
I’m Erica Murphy. Therapist, Shadow Worker, Chaos Witch.
I spent years teaching high-achieving women how to disentangle themselves from the conditioning that results in chronic burnout, spiritual starvation, and a sense of not living the life you’re meant to. Eventually I realized the root was always the same: the Good Girl was still running the show in ever more subtle, insidious ways.
I created Killing the Good Girl because I know a high-performing woman like you doesn’t need more strategy, optimization, or problem solving. Your Good Girl already has that covered. You’re ready for something different. A clean, ritualistic kill. A place to bury the patterns of compliance and politeness that no longer fit— and resurrect the unapologetic woman you’ve always been meant to be.
This work is part shadow, part initiation, part liberation. It’s not about fixing or healing you. It’s about remembering that you are, and always have been - wild, potent, and powerful as fuck.